You need to sit back and just talk with the person!
To you it may feel like it is one sided, but to the other I'm sure she feels that she isn't putting forth enough.
In anything in life, we cannot live with regrets, it will only lead us to more pain and misery. If you haven't had a connection like what you are feeling now, then it is time to jump at the chance and run with the connection that you have with this person. One day that person may not be there, and your life will be filled with "What Ifs". That isn't any way to live.
Stop being scared, the heart knows the direction of where there won't be pain, where there will be satisfaction, happiness, and eternal bliss. Your heart thinks better than your brain because the brain thinks for the moment and the heart thinks for eternity. You can't be scared of being dragged down either, because you obviously have made it this far, right?
You have to trust! You have to trust that if you give a part of yourself to someone that they aren't going to break you, that they are going to care for it tenderly as if it were their own. The other person must also give of them to you.
If you live with what you have now and are not happy and don't lean towards the path that makes you happy, guess what, you're a fool! Don't be broken or torn about it either! What does your heart say? Heck what does the other person have to say that obviously has you torn in this way?
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